I'm 54. I've worn sunscreen almost every single day since my twenties. I genuinely thought I was one of the careful ones.
So when my dermatologist looked at my face during a routine skin check and asked, "How much time do you spend outdoors without a hat?" — I was confused.
"I always wear sunscreen," I said.
She nodded, then pointed to my cheekbones, the tops of my ears, the part in my hair, the back of my neck. "Sunscreen is great," she said. "But this is where I see the most damage — and it's almost always the places people forget to reapply. A wide-brimmed hat protects all of it, all day, without you having to think about it."
I drove home a little rattled. Because I knew she was right. I never reapplied at 2pm. I never put sunscreen in my hair part or on my ears. And on the days I was just running errands or gardening? I often skipped it entirely — that exposure adds up over a lifetime.
That night I started reading. And what I learned reframed everything.